Here’s Why You Keep Attracting Mr Wrong And Not Mr Right!
Despite what you’ve been told by the media or otherwise, SORRY to burst your bubble but there is no such thing as Mr Right and there is no such thing as Mr Wrong. There is only Mr ‘Perfect Match’ at least energetically speaking. Thing is a lot of women aren’t happy with what they’re attracting.
I’m an Enhanced Relationship Coach, the author of She’s Got That Vibe and I specialise in the Law Of Attraction, that states ‘that which is like unto itself is drawn’. We’re all energetic beings and that simply means ‘like energy attracts like energy’. This one idea has such transforming power that I’ll say it again in a different way. Ms Wrong attracts Mr Wrong and Ms Right attracts Mr Right! Your perspective!
Want to be Ms Perfect Match to the ‘Right’ Guy for You?
Well, the first step in attracting your ‘Mr Right’ may seem like an obvious one. Simply, it’s to ask yourself ‘Am I ready’? I always say, ‘you’ll never catch a ball unless you’re ready to catch it. Likewise, are you ready to attract a Great Catch of a man?!
Thing is to attract a great catch of a man, one that is complimentary to you, you must be a great catch for him. It works both ways! So it all begins with you!
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You must believe in your ability to enhance his life through a meaningful and long term relationship with him. If you do not believe in the value you bring to the relationship then you will not engage in the fullness of your power.
Get Vulnerable
So the first step in attracting your ‘Mr Right’ is to truly connect with your-self which means really seeing who you are and being honest! How do you expect him to see you if you cannot even truly see yourself? When was the last time you got really vulnerable, looked at your weaknesses and just accepted yourself? It takes guts to be vulnerable…Are you brave enough to be that openhearted? When you’re openhearted so will he. It takes courage but you must get to the place of acceptance and feeling good enough.
Listen! For me it was the carrying of shame that made me feel inadequate. I don’t know what it is for you… but for me getting face to face with my shame and confronting it healed me! You see …
‘Shame is really the fear of disconnection…is there something about you that you feel, if other people knew it or saw it would make you unworthy of true connection?
You need to get to that place of believing that you are worthy of the type of man in your dreams. When you are prepared to be vulnerable this gives rise to your authenticity and thus true connection with others.
That being said…I want you to know that you have the power to attract your dream relationship!
Visualise
You will need to project your mind to the positive end result you desire of your ideal relationship.
You have to set an intention for exactly how you want to feel in the relationship and you do this by getting real clear on the qualities you require in him to compliment the qualities, the value that you offer. I want you to picture or visualise how you both interact to the point that it actually overspills in the way you interact with men now. Loving, caring, encouraging, honest and a faithful partner!
Design him and have fun with it! Have you seen that movie Weird Science, where a couple of guys design their dream woman? Do what they did, be specific with the height, build, job etcetera. Is he kind, thoughtful, funny? Does he like sport, travelling, eating out? Make as detailed a description as you can. Fantasize as if he’s already in your life. Have fun with it!
Clarity
Gaining clarity on what you want is key, so that the universe is also clear. It responds to you by matching persons to your vibe. The feeling you send out! If you are struggling with this exercise, write a list of all the qualities you didn’t like in a previous relationship and convert it to what you would like!
For example, if the person you were with was miserly, ask for someone who is generous. If the person you were with wasn’t outgoing ask for someone who is social. Come up with a specific list of what you would like to attract in a man, the list can be as long or as short as you want.
Ensure your list and what you imagine is in ‘positive language’ not ‘negative language’. What do I mean by this? State what you want not what you don’t want. The universe doesn’t understand ‘not, ‘no’ and ‘don’t’. I’ll prove it. ‘Don’t think of a yellow balloon with red spots’. I know what you were thinking! Make it positive!
And then…this is crucial..
Get into the vibe of how your list of positive attributes will make you feel. Use your imagination and visualise in the now. The Universe responds to your vibration, your vibe… how the words make you feel in the present moment.
So while you are thinking of your darling in a loving and happy way, the Universe will respond to your vibrations by bringing you more of what you are feeling.
Believe me, once you have attracted the person that you desire, you will be surprised at attracting all of the qualities that you envisioned! The first time I did this I was amazed at my results. I met someone who met almost everything on my list in a way I didn’t expect! The universe has a better version of what you could possibly imagine. So don’t be too rigid with your interpretation of what he should look like to make you feel the way you want to in a relationship. The ‘how’ is the job of the universe!
It is your belief is what makes him manifest and opens the door from the invisible world to your visible world. So believe and trust! The Law of Attraction always put people together that are a vibrational match. This is an attraction based Universe and you get what your vibes project. Remember ‘like attracts like!
Have Faith!
Have faith. Any doubt on your part will cancel and push him away. Anything that you give your focus to you will attract. Doubt the absence of faith. That which you give focus to is the applying of your FAITH whether you want it or not and the universe will respond accordingly to your level of faith. You must see your Darling as here now!
When you place an order on Amazon you expect your parcel, right? You must be of the same mind-set when placing an order with the universe. Expect him! You may meet him online, you may meet him in the supermarket, just follow the intuitive prompting of the universe and you will meet him. The Universe will choose the path in which you will meet. All you need do is just stay focused on sending out your vibe to call him in , believing that you deserve to have him.
Affirmations – ‘I AM’
Repeat positive affirmations such ‘I AM enough’. I AM happy to have the man of my dreams. I feel so happy now that I have met him. This may feel like a lie in the reality but believe that it is not a lie, as you have met him…in your imagination! You’re just waiting for his manifestation. Affirmations are a way to get you into the feeling that the universe will respond to. I have mine on sticky notes plastered on the bathroom mirror where I can see it every day.
Some people will be able to attract their dream guy faster than others according to their level of faith based on their beliefs and how they feel about themselves… That is why YOU getting ready is so important.
For example, I have a friend that jumped into a relationship right after she broke up with her boyfriend. Her self-esteem was low and she didn’t really have a positive outlook on relationships. Her self-esteem, her vibe was low, thus calling in vibrations through a man on the same frequency as her. And because she didn’t give herself time to focus on what she wanted in a new relationship, she ended up attracting a man that had the same negative thoughts and feelings that she had. Like Attracts Like! He wasn’t what she wanted but she got her perfect match…vibrationally! Needless to say it didn’t work out as she hoped. You see you attract what you are, not what you want.
Other great ways to stay focused consistently on the feeling of being already in love are:
• Watch love movies with happy endings that help you focus on feeling good. Listen to love songs
• Make a Vision Board, where you collect and cut out pictures of loving couples, countries you’d both like to visit.
Trust in the universe and be clear with the universe. Above all have fun with it and excel in the anticipation of attracting your dream guy and it will happen if you allow it!
Enjoy the process.
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